Wedding fights

James and I had a bit of a fight about the wedding today. I sent him a link to a page on The Knot that talks about issues that couples fight about during their engagement and the wedding planning. I thought it would be good for us to know some sticky spots so that we can avoid them. I didn’t think it was going to start a fight!

James said he feels like I spend so much time thinking about the wedding that I’m neglecting him. I, of course, am just so excited about being able to be so unabashadly girly in public that I can’t help myself.

We talked a bit and I promised to be more aware of when I’m getting sucked in. I think he gets how excited I am and how much fun I’m having. We decided to be sure to take some time every day away from laptops (he’s just started a side project that’s going to take up 20 hours a week), televisions, books, magazines, work, etc., to just be together.

Tonight we came home and had a nice talk over a glass of wine. We planned what furniture we need to buy for our move, where we want to put stuff, how we’re going to unpack, the little details like setting up cable and electricity. It was really nice. I think that as long as we keep our “date,” we’ll be fine.

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